Fear can cripple...

I am about to share a recent observation I have made and I am sure there were times in my life where I probably responded in somewhat similar ways.

When changes around us become too unfamiliar and we decide to take a different direction in life, fear can sometimes take over us unconsciously and begin to cripple our judgment/perspective. What I have recently observed has prompted me to blog about it as I feel that it will 'speak' to everyone.

Whenever we allow ourselves to be filled with fear, we end up crippling ourselves and not see the truth or reality as it is. We become distrusting individuals, constantly thinking that others are out to take advantage of us. We become clouded in our judgment and insecure about ourselves. We feel a need to 'protect' ourselves and our interests. But in reality there really isn't anything we need to 'protect' ourselves from. Because NO ONE is out to get us or put us down in anyway. We become totally irrational in our thought processes and totally paranoid. We feel a need to 'prove' ourselves and be superior when there is really no need too as those around you already know your worth. But we don't see it. The situation becomes one where it is difficult for others to reason with us. A sad situation to be in but often times so true. Ultimately, the fear that has gripped us so intently ends up destroying perfectly wonderful relationships (work/friendships/family/romantic).

And you know what? Most often times, we do not even realize that we are just doing just that. This is a gentle reminder for all of us to be constantly vigilant to deny any fear in us as much and often as possible.

In any direction in life that you make, there are uncertainties and unknowns. Set forth with a positive foot forward... make the change you want for yourself... Changes will constantly take place around you but it will not change who you are or your worth, unless you allow it to.